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But when a woman is being a *nice* person, it has NOTHING to do with what she finds SEXY in a man. She does NOT find the same behaviors of *niceness* to be SEXY when they are exhibited by a man. For example, when a woman is helping someone less fortunate, let's say a beggar, by giving him some money, it is her SYMPATHY. She feels NOTHING sexual for him, most likely she feels he is repulsive in a sexual sense.
Now, I'm NOT saying to become a selfish mean person who she could never appreciate on a *nice* level, I’m not suggesting you become a royal prick or cruel person, but I AM saying do NOT emphasize any *NICE* characteristics when you are with a WOMAN. Most men make the terrible mistake of trying to appeal to a woman's sense of being *good*, a woman's sense of being *nice* by doing NICE things for a woman, hoping to get reciprocation from her. |
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This should go without saying, but just in case it's not obvious, this also means not forcing things in a way that you end up coming across as desperate or psycho! Unless you're a famous movie star that she is already in love with, immediately crowding a woman and standing within one inch of her nose can be pretty scary for her.
Next point: A LOT of guys get confused about what it means to be cool- when trying to be FUNNY for example. Or trying to be INTELLIGENT. Or trying to be USEFUL. Or COMPLIMENTARY. Now, those things COULD be cool, but are not cool on their own. Think of it this way: Take all the things you normally associate with INTERESTING and INJECT them with the *JUICE* of PASSION, CONFIDENCE, INTRIGUE. |
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But what if all does not go as you expected, you ask.
• What if you are being harassed by another member? – Save the messages you feel are harassing and contact the customer service of the dating service immediately. Provide details about the member that is harassing you to the customer service representative and if you feel that you can no longer safely use the service, as for a refund on your membership fees • What if you can’t get your membership cancelled and your credit card keeps getting charged for a membership you no longer want? – Write the billing department or the customer service department of the dating service. If they fail to respond within a reasonable amount of time (we call 3 business days reasonable, you may feel a shorter or longer waiting time is reasonable) contact your credit card company and have the credit card charges reversed and ask that no further charges be authorized to your card • What if you have a complaint against the service and they won’t help you correct things? - Contact the staff at aLoveLinksPlus.com. We are available to mediate any valid complaint against most online dating services. If a dating service has been reviewed and recommended by aLoveLinksPlus.com staff, we will most certainly get involved on your behalf to help work out a solution. If the dating service is not recommended by aLoveLinksPlus.com staff, we will try to help as best we can. Be sure to email us all details of your complaint, the steps you have taken in bringing your complaint to their attention and the reason why the dating service has acted against what you feel is your best interest as a customer of theirs. |
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